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Reflections on strength, faith, community, and the work of building IRONROCK. Earlier articles were published under Temple Built—the foundation this next chapter carries forward.
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Built Not Found
A Beginner Again | 101126
I thought a few homework assignments with an unloaded bar would be easy. They gave me a lesson in learning, patience, and the joy of being a beginner again.
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Before You Feel Ready I 100426
One building checked nearly every box. Another may be right, but I still cannot get the drawings and bids. Here is what the unfinished search for Temple Built's first home is teaching me.
3 min read
The People Were Here First | 092726
Temple Built does not have an address yet, but the community around it is already beginning to form. Two conversations helped me see what I am responsible for building and what may never have been mine to manufacture.
7 min read
DELOAD | Discipline Goes Both Directions | 092026
I thought deloads sounded like an excuse. Then years of training—and a frightening moment of sleep deprivation—forced me to reconsider what discipline actually means. Sometimes the work calls for another rep. Sometimes it calls for taking the plate off.
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PLATE | You Don't Need a Different Truth. You Need a Different Plate | 091326
After tearing my rotator cuff, even an empty barbell was too much.
The road back started with resistance bands, light dumbbells and five-second hangs—and taught me something I wish I'd understood much earlier:
You don't get stronger by lifting the weight you remember. You get stronger by lifting the weight you're ready for today.
6 min read
The Mirror Told Me What the Photograph Couldn't
In 2019 I saw a family photograph of myself, and inside of about four seconds I had a complete legal defense built. Bad angle. Bad lighting. Camera adds weight. I was probably standing wrong. It's just a bad picture. I want you to notice how fast that was. Four seconds. No deliberation, no weighing of evidence — just an immediate, fluent, well-practiced case for why the thing in front of me wasn't true. I'd like to tell you I had to work at that defense. I didn't. It arrived
8 min read
CLOCK: What You Do With the Time You Didn't Choose | 083026
Every gym I've ever trained in has had a clock somewhere. I've spent a ridiculous amount of my life looking at one. Waiting for the next set. Watching a rest period. Counting down an interval. Trying to beat yesterday's time. Sometimes wanting the seconds to move faster. Sometimes wishing they'd slow down. But there's something about that clock I didn't understand when I was younger. It isn't only measuring the work. It's measuring the recovery too. My youngest son reminded m
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SPOT: Know When to Reach In | 082326
What two lifts with my son taught me about struggle, fatherhood, responsibility, and wisdom A few years ago, I was chasing a bench press PR. I'd been training heavy for a couple of months—mostly doubles and triples—and things were clicking. One morning in the garage, with my son Damian training alongside me, I loaded 345 pounds onto the bar. I'd actually already hit it once. Clean lift. The only problem? My phone had fallen over. Didn't record a second of it. So naturally,
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CHALK: You Still Have to Hold the Bar | 081626
What a simple training tool taught me about strength, responsibility, brotherhood, and asking for help. Last summer, my sons and I were working out in the backyard. We were doing hex-bar carries. 275 pounds on the bar. Down a section of the yard, turn around, come back. The first trip was fine. On the second, my hands started sweating. About five steps in, I felt the handles begin to shift. Every little bounce from my steps made my fingers open slightly and readjust. Suddenly
6 min read
LIFT— What Is Your Strength For? | 080926
For years, I believed strength was measured by the number on the bar.
One lift taught me that wasn't the whole story.
The older I get, the more I realize strength isn't the destination.
It's preparation for the people and purposes God has entrusted to us.
4 min read
CLIMB | 080226
I used to believe climbing a rope was about strength.
Years later, I realized the rope never changed.
The process did.
And that lesson has shaped my faith, my marriage, my leadership, and the way I'm building Temple Built.
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The Carry — The Weight That Shapes a Man | 072626
There are some lessons that announce themselves the moment they happen. Others stay quiet for years. Sometimes decades. You live through the experience without realizing it has become part of who you are. Then one ordinary morning, when life slows down just enough, the lesson finally introduces itself. That happened to me recently. Not in a church. Not during a conversation. Not while reading Scripture. It happened in my driveway, carrying a 60-pound slam ball before sunrise.
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Before They Call It Success | 071926
There is a strange thing about success. People almost always arrive after the work is finished. They celebrate the ribbon cutting. The grand opening. The championship. The promotion. The milestone. What they rarely see are the years that made those moments possible. The prayers no one heard. The sacrifices no one applauded. The uncertainty. The waiting. The ordinary Tuesdays. As I prepared to record Episode 20 of Built Not Found, I realized this lesson wasn't just true of bus
4 min read
The Weight You Choose | 071226
Most men carry more than they admit. Not just physically. Emotionally. Spiritually. Financially. Relationally. We carry responsibilities, expectations, fears, regrets, and obligations. We carry the pressure to provide, protect, lead, perform, and endure. And somewhere along the way, many of us begin to believe that strength means carrying everything. I know I did. For years, I believed that being a husband, a father, and a man meant saying yes to every responsibility, solving
5 min read
First In Faith. Then In Form. Before There Are Walls | 070526
Last weekend, I walked through an empty building. Concrete floors. Bare walls. Nothing finished. Nothing impressive. If you had walked through it with me, you probably would have seen exactly what most people see when they walk through an empty warehouse: Concrete. Bad lighting. A lot of work. A lot of money. A lot of risk. And honestly, all of those things are true. But somehow… I could already see it. I could see the rigs. The turf. The sauna. The prayer before Sa
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The Promises We Keep | 062826
Most people think trust is something you build with other people. A spouse. A friend. A business partner. A coworker. And that's true. But I've come to believe the first person you usually stop trusting is yourself. Every promise you keep strengthens that trust. Every promise you break weakens it. And eventually, whether you realize it or not, you start believing the evidence. I learned that through cigarettes. It Started Young I smoked for over ten years. I started young
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The Man, Not the Numbers | 062026
One day, every trophy gets dusty. Every paycheck gets spent. Everything you own eventually ends up in someone else’s hands. That is not pessimism. It is reality. The older I get, the less impressed I am by things that disappear. Work matters. Providing matters. Training matters. I have given a large part of my life to all three. But much of what we spend our lives chasing comes with an expiration date: the promotion, the title, the personal record, the recognition, the applau
4 min read
What Are You Building? | 061326
Everybody is building something. A body. A marriage. A family. A reputation. A career. A business. A life. Whether we realize it or not, every day we are laying another brick - making another decision, reinforcing another habit, moving in a particular direction. The question is not whether you are building. The question is whether you are building something you will be proud of when enough time has passed to see it clearly. I used to measure building differently A few years a
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What Remains | 060626
The older I get, the more I find myself asking a different question. Not, "How much have I accomplished?" Not, "How much have I accumulated?" But simply this: What remains? Time has a way of changing what we value. Things that once felt urgent begin to lose their grip. Things we barely noticed start to look priceless. And eventually life forces all of us to separate what truly mattered from what merely occupied our attention. That is not a comfortable exercise. But it is an h
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The Example You're Setting | 053026
Most people underestimate their influence. They assume leadership belongs to someone else - the coach, the teacher, the boss, the pastor, the public figure, the person standing on a stage with a microphone. But leadership rarely starts there. It starts in ordinary places: at the dinner table, in the garage, at work, in the gym, in the way a person responds to pressure, treats other people, and handles responsibility when no one is handing out credit. That is where influence i
4 min read
Building Strength, Stewardship, and Purpose Before the Doors Ever Open
Lessons from faith, discipline, leadership, family, stewardship, and the journey of building TMPL.BLT in Dutchess County, New York.
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